Sensitive Friend,
Unlike before, you’ve sent me many quotes about our preent times. They were all critical or sarcastic.
I believe, in many ways, we live a world better than previous generations. In reality, we don’t know how it was for them. Maybe, they complained about their own times. I am wary about those following us.
I miss the manners and a level of deliberate and desired cordiality and the control of one’s fury and anger.
Our generation started to denounce self-control and encourage us to manifest rage and fury with more ease.
It has been like a full speed snowball effect. The generations following us turned this to maximum intensity and confuse necessary and essential honesty with sheer and, in my opinion, wilful hurt.
Daily, we witness hysterical behaviour, and resilience (the new mantra) is gone. How can anyone be happy without self-control? How?
We, our generation, bears much blame for these outcomes.
Wise Friend,
Becoming actively aware not to expect from somebody who can’t offer in some areas we need support happens as part of the painful ways of personal deceptions. Hence the expression “follies of youth.” That’s why you like repeating “This is the last thing I need!”
Sensitive Friend,
You digressed. Yes, I learned to not expect the same. I’m sure, in turn, many times, I fail to give or support others, and I don’t even notice. We might think we provide a lot. Some do more than others. Some give nothing and have no doubts about their generosity. I hope many non-givers are at least honest with themselves.
Nature gifted us with a variety of optimism we call “instinct of conservation”, which doesn’t allow us to despair. “La tristezza nasce quando la speranza muore.” Google is of no help here. “The sadness is born when the hope dies.”
Though, we have our limits when nothing can be justified this way, when terrible traumas happened. We both have been spared.
eachword-eachday 